For a woman, the act of mounting a man and fucking him with a strap on makes us more dominant. It’s strange that because when I have asked my male friends if mounting a woman makes them feel more dominant they say no. I think it’s because a guy has to be fairly submissive to accept anything in his arse and especially a strap on because of what it represents – a cock!
I really love being in control when it comes to sex, and to fuck a guy wearing a strap on and see his hard on diminish is where I get my kick, knowing he is so turned on and if I push that little bit harder I can milk him without him needing his cock, gives me authority and dominance. When I fuck my male friends I make them tell me what they enjoy about it, and listening to their little squeaky replies saying that they are a sissy boy, or they need a good fucking by a real cock, pleasures me because I know it’s the truth.
The best place to start some strap on play is on phonesex, the Mistress cannot see you, and you won’t be embarrassed as you slide something that is quite alien to you at first in your arse. She may giggle a little as you wimper when it’s all the way in and you begin to fuck yourself with it. But that’s good. It means you’re doing as your told, and a Mistress always encourages that. It allows you to escape any punishment she might have up her leather sleeve for you! Give it a try, you know you will enjoy the experience.